A Raw and Reflective Journey through “Staring Contest: Essays About Eyes”
“Staring Contest: Essays About Eyes” by Joshua Amberson found its way into my hands without any prior knowledge or research. The decision to pick it up was solely based on the compelling review by Jordan Kisner, author of “Thin Places: Essays from In Between.” And I’m grateful for that serendipitous encounter at Powell’s.
The book delves into the intricate world of vision and perception, offering a genuine exploration that goes beyond the surface. As someone who has grappled with the fear of losing sight, I found that my apprehension was rooted in a lack of understanding and education on the matter. Amberson’s work addresses this fear head-on, presenting an authentic and unfiltered perspective on the experiences surrounding vision.
The essays within the book are profoundly personal, spanning Amberson’s life from childhood to the challenges posed by the pandemic. What sets this collection apart is its authenticity — it doesn’t shy away from the raw and often traumatic aspects of the human experience, refusing to sugarcoat reality.
One noteworthy suggestion for readers is to approach each essay with a sense of contemplation. Despite their brevity, these essays are densely packed with reflective insights. After reading each piece, take a moment to put the book down and let the words resonate. Amberson’s narrative style invites readers to engage with their own thoughts and experiences, turning each essay into a springboard for personal reflection.
As I journeyed through the pages, I felt a connection with the author. Amberson’s writing mirrors a genuine conversation, much like how I imagine a dialogue with him would unfold. It’s evident that sharing these experiences is a vulnerable task for him, yet it’s this vulnerability that allows readers to get to know him truly.
One particularly resonant theme revolves around the act of staring — a universal experience that Amberson navigates with insight and empathy. Through his words, I discovered that some of my internal monologues, especially those related to staring, are shared by many.
In conclusion, “Staring Contest” is a compelling collection that transcends the boundaries of personal narrative. It is a journey into the complexities of sight, perception, and human connection. Joshua Amberson’s essays leave an indelible mark, prompting readers to not only witness his experiences but also to embark on their own introspective quests.
